How to Lead a Family Devotion: A Step-by-Step Guide

We know leading a family devotion can feel intimidating. Maybe you’re thinking, “What if my kids ask a question I don’t know the answer to?” or “How do I keep their attention without turning it into a lecture?” Brother, we’ve been there. But here’s the good news: family devotions don’t require you to be a Bible scholar. The goal is simply to lead your family toward Christ one step at a time. But how can you make this spiritual discipline a consistent and meaningful part of your home life?

Start with Prayer

Before anything else, pray. Ask God to guide you and open your family’s hearts. We’re not trying to force a moment; we’re asking the Holy Spirit to move. James 1:5 reminds us, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him.” When we lean on the Lord, He provides exactly what we need and always equips us for whatever task He has given us to do.

Choose a Time and Stick to It

Consistency matters. Whether it’s at breakfast, after dinner, or before bed, pick a time that works and guard it. Life is busy, but when we prioritize time in God’s Word, we show our families what truly matters. Even 10 to 15 minutes can make a lasting impact.

Keep It Simple and Engaging

You don’t need a seminary degree to lead a devotion. Read a passage of Scripture, discuss it, and pray together. That’s it. A short passage from the Psalms, Proverbs, or the Gospels is a great place to start. Ask open-ended questions like, “What stood out to you?” or “How can we apply this today?” Keep the discussion natural. If your kids are younger, use stories and illustrations. If they’re older, challenge them with deeper questions. But remember: your goal is engagement, not a theology lecture.

Lead by Example

Our families are watching us. If we approach devotions with enthusiasm, they’ll see it’s important. If we treat it like a chore, they’ll pick up on that too. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 says,

These words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.

Living out God’s Word is the best lesson we can give.

Encourage Participation

A devotion isn’t a one-man sermon. Involve your family. Let someone else read the passage. Ask your wife and kids to share their thoughts. Sing a worship song together if that’s your style. The more involved they are, the more meaningful it becomes. Consider taking turns choosing the passage of Scripture to focus on, and be open to questions. If you don’t know the answer, say so, and work together to find it.

What to Avoid

Here’s where we sometimes trip up. Don’t make devotions a guilt trip. This isn’t about checking a spiritual box or making up for lost time. Don’t let distractions take over; phones, TV, and to-do lists can wait. And don’t get discouraged if it feels awkward at first. Keep showing up. Over time, it will feel natural.

Close in Prayer

Wrap it up by praying together. Encourage your wife and kids to pray out loud, too. This strengthens their faith and makes prayer a normal part of family life. Keep it simple: thank God for His Word, ask for wisdom, and pray for each other’s needs.

Leading a family devotion isn’t about perfection. It’s about faithfulness. Some days will go smoothly, while others may feel like herding cats. That’s okay. What matters is that you’re showing up and pointing your family to Christ. Stay the course, and trust that God is working in your home.